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The Phoenix Ottawa

By adult.ca · Updated

A private members' club in Ottawa for all genders and identities, with weekly events.

All the details

Status
Open ("we're open for business"). Weekly events listed. Source: Contact page, Home page
Who can go
All genders and identities. Couples, single women and non-binary people: all events. Single men: Monday and Friday events and Men'z nights; Swinger Saturday and Her Playground are invitation-only for single men. Source: Membership page
Dress code
"Dress to impress"; sexy or kink/fetish wear encouraged. No phones or cameras. Source: FAQ page
Cover
The door fee is on top of membership. Misbehave Monday $30 men / $15 women, non-binary and others. Friday Kink Night $30 per person. Swinger Saturday $30 per person. Men'z $30 members / $40 non-members. Her Playground $50 couple / $50 single men / $25 single women. Source: Home page, Membership page
Membership
Per year: men $100, women and non-binary $40, couples $80. Bought in person after vetting. Source: Membership page
Hours
Mondays 7–11 pm. Fridays 8 pm–1 am. 1st, 3rd and 5th Saturdays 8 pm–1 am. Source: Home page
Address
Not public. Email info@thephoenixottawa.com to be vetted and get it. Parking on site. Source: Contact page, FAQ page
Age
18+ Source: FAQ page
Drinks
BYOB (no alcohol or cannabis sold). Condoms and lube provided. Source: FAQ page

Facts checked Oct 27, 2026 on the club's own website. Anything the site does not say has been left out.

Questions

Can single men go?

Yes, to Monday and Friday events and Men'z nights. Swinger Saturday and Her Playground are invitation-only for single men. Men pay $100 a year for membership plus the door fee, for example $30 on Misbehave Monday or Friday Kink Night.

Where is it?

The address isn't published. Email info@thephoenixottawa.com to be vetted and get it. There is parking on site.

Is there a dress code?

Dress to impress; sexy or kink and fetish wear is encouraged. Phones and cameras aren't allowed. It's BYOB: the club sells no alcohol or cannabis, and it provides condoms and lube.

How old do you have to be?

18 or older. Membership is bought in person after vetting.

Sources

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